WE HAVE 3 OPTIONS:
Option 1:
You can go to your itune and look for your purchased history. this is like try to find needle in haystack.
Option 2:
Email apple support: go to this page http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/contact/
Option 3:
1. Wait for the receipt for your purchased from apple through email.
login to icloud email. https://www.icloud.com/#mail
2. Look for the receipt
3. open the email and click on the "Report a problem"
4.a It will bring you to a Itune webpage. Please login using your icloud login info.
4.b. And choose a problem category: "I didn't unauthorized This Purchase" with explanation your kid click on the purchase button without your consent.
5. Apple will record the problem and email the notification:
6. In couple of days they will email you. Apple will be glad to refund you back for unintentional purchased.